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INTP-CA a abota: yadda INTP-CA yake samun abokai da riƙe su
INTP-CA yana gina abota da riƙe ta a matsayin mai son kaɗaici, mai hasashe, mai tsauri, mai sassauci, mai natsuwa da mai buri. A ƙasa: yadda hakan yake a zahiri, abin da bincike ya ce game da hali da abota, da inda saɓani zai iya tasowa da abokan da suka bambanta da ku.
Matsaloli da ka’idoji marasa zahiri suna jan hankalinku, kuma kuna jin daɗin tambayar abubuwan da ake ɗauka a matsayin gaskiya. Kun fi son tsari mara tsauri da lokacin yin tunani ku kaɗai, kuma kun fi damuwa da samun abu daidai fiye da faranta wa kowa rai. Kuna kasancewa cikin natsuwa a ƙarƙashin matsi (natsuwar zuciya mai yawa) kuma matsayi, nasara da karɓuwa suna motsa ku (gaskiya da tawali’u ƙanana). Wannan yanayi ne na amincewa da kai da son gasa. Babban haɗarinsa yana kan aminci na dogon lokaci.
Yadda INTP-CA yake a matsayin aboki
Yadda kowane harafi yakan bayyana. Waɗannan bayanin sifofin ne, ba sakamakon bincike ba.
Wataƙila kun fi son ’yan abokai na kurkusa fiye da babbar da’ira, da zurfin hira fiye da yawan haɗuwa.
Hirarrakin da suke shiga cikin ra’ayoyi, littattafai, ka’idoji ko tsare-tsare wataƙila su ne abin da kuka fi daraja a wajen abokai.
Wataƙila ku ne abokin da yake faɗin abin da wasu suke tunani, kuma kuna daraja abokan da za su iya jure gaskiya.
Wataƙila zama da ku yana da sauƙi kuma kuna shirye don shirin ƙarshe na minti, ko da yake ba kwa saurin bibiya.
Wataƙila ku ne masu kwantar da hankali idan abokai suna cikin wani rikici.
Wataƙila zama da ku yana ba da kuzari da ƙwarin gwiwa, kuma kuna da ƙwarewa wajen gina hanyoyin sadarwa masu amfani.
Sifofin INTP a abota: bincike da shawarwarin aiki
- Wataƙila kuna samun abokai a hankali. Son jama’a ya fi hasashen yawan abokan da za ku samu fiye da yadda abotar take kurkusa.[1][2]
- Haɗuwa masu natsuwa akai-akai (yawo na kowane mako, kira a wata rana ta musamman) suna gina kusanci ba tare da gajiyar da ku ba.
- A wani bincike da ya bibiyi ɗaliban jami’a na watanni 18, son jama’a ya yi hasashen gina babbar hanyar sadarwa da sauran ɗalibai. Girman da’ira ba ɗaya yake da kusanci ba, don haka ƙaramar da’ira ba nakasu ba ce.[3][2]
- Abokan da suke daraja gaskiya za su daraja ku. Wasu kuma wataƙila za su buƙaci ku sassauta yadda kuke faɗin abu.
- Ƙarancin sauƙin kai yana hasashen hanyoyi masu ɓarna a rikici tsakanin mutane, don haka yadda kuke nuna rashin yarda ya fi muhimmanci fiye da ko kun ƙi yarda.[4]
- Zama da ku yana da daɗi kuma yana da sauƙi a jitu da ku. Ku saka tunatarwa don ranakun haihuwa da tuntuɓar mutane.
- Kuna samun kuzari daga abokan da za ku iya musayar ra’ayoyi, littattafai da sababbin abubuwa da su.
INTP-CA tare da abokai masu bambanci: abubuwan da suke kawo saɓani da mafita
Inda ku da ɗayan mutumin kuke a gefe dabam-dabam na harafi ɗaya. Shawarwarin aiki, ba sakamakon bincike ba.
Ɗaya yana son manyan taruka, ɗayan kuma haɗuwa ku biyu kawai. Ku riƙa musanya tsakanin hanyoyin biyu.
Ku riƙa musanya tsakanin tattauna ra’ayoyi da yin ayyuka na zahiri tare.
Ɗaya yana magana kai tsaye, ɗayan kuma yana da hankali. Zai taimaka idan wanda ya fi magana kai tsaye ya fara da abin da yake daraja.
Ɗaya yana tsarawa, ɗayan kuma yana yin abu nan take. Ku bar mai tsarawa ya sa lokaci, ɗayan kuma ya zaɓi abin da za a yi.
Abokin da ya fi natsuwa yakan zama ginshiƙin dogaro. Ku tabbatar cewa taimako yana tafiya ta ɓangarorin biyu.
Ɗaya yana neman matsayi, ɗayan kuma mai tawali’u ne. Kada ku bar abota ta koma kan kwatanta kai.
Abin da haruffan -CA suke ƙara wa INTP a abota
C = Mai natsuwa (natsuwar zuciya), A = Mai buri (gaskiya da tawali’u). Gwajin gargajiya na haruffa huɗu ba ya auna ko ɗaya daga cikinsu, amma duka biyu suna da muhimmanci a abota:
- Sau da yawa abokai suna dogara da ku a lokacin wahala. Ku tabbatar cewa taimako yana tafiya ta ɓangarorin biyu.
- Zama da ku yana da daɗi kuma kuna ƙarfafa gwiwa. Ku tabbatar abokanku suna jin kuna daraja su don yadda suke, ba don abin da za su iya ba ku ba.
- A matsakaici, mutanen da suke da ƙarancin gaskiya da tawali’u ba sa yawan haɗa kai a wasannin tattalin arziki da suka dogara da aminci. A abota, adalcin da ake gani (raba kuɗaɗe, mayar da alheri) yana daidaita hakan.[5]
Yaya ƙarfin waɗannan sakamako yake?
- Haruffa huɗu na gargajiya suna daidai da huɗu daga cikin sifofin Big Five (son jama’a, buɗaɗɗen tunani, sauƙin kai, ƙwazo), shi ya sa binciken Big Five ya shafe su.[6]
- Alaƙoƙin da ke tsakanin sifofi da sakamako gaskiya ne amma kowanne ƙarami ne: alaƙar da aka saba gani tana kusan 0.10 zuwa 0.30, don haka sifofi suna sauya yiwuwa ne maimakon su yanke sakamako. Wani babban aikin maimaita bincike ya tabbatar da yawancin alaƙoƙin da aka gwada, yawanci da tasiri ɗan ƙasa.[7][8]
Layukan da ba su da majiya shawarwarin aiki ne ko bayanin sifofi, ba sakamakon bincike ba.
Gwajin kyauta yana auna dukkan sifofi shida a matsayin percentile. Tambayoyi 62, kusan minti 8, ba rajista.
Ku yi gwajin kyautaKuna da sakamako tuni? Ku kwatanta da aboki.
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