INFJ · Mai Hangen Nesa
INFJ a abota: yadda INFJ yake samun abokai da riƙe su
INFJ yana gina abota da riƙe ta a matsayin mai son kaɗaici, mai hasashe, mai tausayi da mai tsari. A ƙasa: yadda hakan yake a zahiri, abin da bincike ya ce game da hali da abota, da inda saɓani zai iya tasowa da abokan da suka bambanta da ku.
Kuna haɗa hasashe da tausayi tare da ƙarfin son tsari. Kuna yin shiru a manyan taruka amma kuna shiga sosai idan ku biyu ne kawai, kuma sau da yawa manufofi na dogon lokaci da suka samo asali daga ƙa’idodinku ne suke motsa ku.
Yadda INFJ yake a matsayin aboki
Yadda kowane harafi yakan bayyana. Waɗannan bayanin sifofin ne, ba sakamakon bincike ba.
Wataƙila kun fi son ’yan abokai na kurkusa fiye da babbar da’ira, da zurfin hira fiye da yawan haɗuwa.
Hirarrakin da suke shiga cikin ra’ayoyi, littattafai, ka’idoji ko tsare-tsare wataƙila su ne abin da kuka fi daraja a wajen abokai.
Wataƙila abokai suna zuwa wajenku don neman goyon baya da kunne mai tausayi.
Wataƙila ku ne kuke tunawa da ranakun haihuwa, kuke sa ranar haɗuwa kuma kuke zuwa a kan lokaci.
Sifofin INFJ a abota: bincike da shawarwarin aiki
- Wataƙila kuna samun abokai a hankali. Son jama’a ya fi hasashen yawan abokan da za ku samu fiye da yadda abotar take kurkusa.[1][2]
- Haɗuwa masu natsuwa akai-akai (yawo na kowane mako, kira a wata rana ta musamman) suna gina kusanci ba tare da gajiyar da ku ba.
- A wani bincike da ya bibiyi ɗaliban jami’a na watanni 18, son jama’a ya yi hasashen gina babbar hanyar sadarwa da sauran ɗalibai. Girman da’ira ba ɗaya yake da kusanci ba, don haka ƙaramar da’ira ba nakasu ba ce.[3][2]
- Sauƙin kai yana taimakawa wajen ginawa da riƙe abota, saboda mutane suna jin aminci idan suna tare da ku.[2]
- Idan aka sami rashin jituwa, mutane masu yawan sauƙin kai suna amfani da hanyoyi masu gina jiki kuma ba kasafai suke ƙara rura saɓani ba, wanda yake kare abota a lokuta masu wahala.[4]
- Ku ne abokin da yake tunawa kuma yake zuwa. Kasancewa abin dogaro shi ne tushen aminci mai natsuwa.
- Kuna samun kuzari daga abokan da za ku iya musayar ra’ayoyi, littattafai da sababbin abubuwa da su.
INFJ tare da abokai masu bambanci: abubuwan da suke kawo saɓani da mafita
Inda ku da ɗayan mutumin kuke a gefe dabam-dabam na harafi ɗaya. Shawarwarin aiki, ba sakamakon bincike ba.
Ɗaya yana son manyan taruka, ɗayan kuma haɗuwa ku biyu kawai. Ku riƙa musanya tsakanin hanyoyin biyu.
Ku riƙa musanya tsakanin tattauna ra’ayoyi da yin ayyuka na zahiri tare.
Ɗaya yana magana kai tsaye, ɗayan kuma yana da hankali. Zai taimaka idan wanda ya fi magana kai tsaye ya fara da abin da yake daraja.
Ɗaya yana tsarawa, ɗayan kuma yana yin abu nan take. Ku bar mai tsarawa ya sa lokaci, ɗayan kuma ya zaɓi abin da za a yi.
Rassa huɗu na INFJ: yadda suka bambanta a abota
Sifofi biyu da gwajin gargajiya na haruffa huɗu ba ya auna su, natsuwar zuciya da gaskiya da tawali’u, suna raba INFJ zuwa rassa huɗu.
Wataƙila ku ne masu kwantar da hankali idan abokai suna cikin wani rikici. Wataƙila kuna ɗaukar abokai a matsayin daidai da ku, kuma ku ne mutumin da ake amincewa da sirri a wajensa.
- Gaskiya da tawali’u suna hasashen halin adalci da haɗin kai inda ake buƙatar aminci, wato irin dogaron da abota take tafiya a kai.[5]
Wataƙila ku ne masu kwantar da hankali idan abokai suna cikin wani rikici. Wataƙila zama da ku yana ba da kuzari da ƙwarin gwiwa, kuma kuna da ƙwarewa wajen gina hanyoyin sadarwa masu amfani.
- A matsakaici, mutanen da suke da ƙarancin gaskiya da tawali’u ba sa yawan haɗa kai a wasannin tattalin arziki da suka dogara da aminci. A abota, adalcin da ake gani (raba kuɗaɗe, mayar da alheri) yana daidaita hakan.[5]
Wataƙila kuna lura da yanayin zuciyar abokai, kuma wataƙila kuna sake tunanin hirarraki bayan sun wuce kuna mamakin yadda suka kasance. Wataƙila kuna ɗaukar abokai a matsayin daidai da ku, kuma ku ne mutumin da ake amincewa da sirri a wajensa.
- Gaskiya da tawali’u suna hasashen halin adalci da haɗin kai inda ake buƙatar aminci, wato irin dogaron da abota take tafiya a kai.[5]
Wataƙila kuna lura da yanayin zuciyar abokai, kuma wataƙila kuna sake tunanin hirarraki bayan sun wuce kuna mamakin yadda suka kasance. Wataƙila zama da ku yana ba da kuzari da ƙwarin gwiwa, kuma kuna da ƙwarewa wajen gina hanyoyin sadarwa masu amfani.
- A matsakaici, mutanen da suke da ƙarancin gaskiya da tawali’u ba sa yawan haɗa kai a wasannin tattalin arziki da suka dogara da aminci. A abota, adalcin da ake gani (raba kuɗaɗe, mayar da alheri) yana daidaita hakan.[5]
Yaya ƙarfin waɗannan sakamako yake?
- Haruffa huɗu na gargajiya suna daidai da huɗu daga cikin sifofin Big Five (son jama’a, buɗaɗɗen tunani, sauƙin kai, ƙwazo), shi ya sa binciken Big Five ya shafe su.[6]
- Alaƙoƙin da ke tsakanin sifofi da sakamako gaskiya ne amma kowanne ƙarami ne: alaƙar da aka saba gani tana kusan 0.10 zuwa 0.30, don haka sifofi suna sauya yiwuwa ne maimakon su yanke sakamako. Wani babban aikin maimaita bincike ya tabbatar da yawancin alaƙoƙin da aka gwada, yawanci da tasiri ɗan ƙasa.[7][8]
Layukan da ba su da majiya shawarwarin aiki ne ko bayanin sifofi, ba sakamakon bincike ba.
Gwajin kyauta yana auna dukkan sifofi shida a matsayin percentile kuma yana nuna muku wane reshe ne ku daga cikin huɗu. Tambayoyi 62, kusan minti 8, ba rajista.
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